The Seven Rays: An Introduction
Everything is energy. This piece of metaphysical wisdom has been backed up by science and most of us can accept it as truth. A less-known teaching from the Ageless Wisdom is that there are seven Rays, or types, of energy that vivify everything in creation. As an avid student of esoteric spirituality, particularly the work of Djwhal Khul and Alice Bailey, I have been fascinated by these Seven Rays for more than a decade. The topic is huge and complex in one sense, yet simple from another angle. I'd like to share a little of what I have learned with you. I would ask that in return, you keep an open mind---before and after reading! Try to avoid drawing concrete conclusions from such esoteric teachings. My hope is that you will be captivated by the topic as well, and that our joined thought will open humanity up to a greater understanding of the workings of the Universe.
The Seven Rays originate in a distant place in the universe. They circulate through Sirius and then to the Seven Sisters of the Pleiades. From there they circulate throughout creation, making their way to our solar system. They color, or affect, every living thing, from the sun to a planet to a kingdom in nature on earth to a human being.
Each Ray is characterized by a particular quality or attribute, and the things (everything!) the Rays touch are therefore also characterized by this quality. The Sun is primarily affected by a particular Ray; a different one affects the earth. The mineral, vegetable, animal and human kingdoms are likewise affected by a particular Ray (actually a pair of Rays for each). Human beings are affected by the Rays in five different levels of human experience: on the level of the soul; the personality as a whole; the mind; the emotions; and the physical body.
The Rays are:
- The First Ray of Will or Power.
- The Second Ray of Love-Wisdom.
- The Third Ray of Intelligent Activity.
- The Fourth Ray of Harmony through Conflict.
- The Fifth Ray of Concrete Knowledge and Science.
- The Sixth Ray of Devotion and Idealism.
- The Seventh Ray of Ceremonial Order and Magic.
The first three Rays are known as the Rays of Aspect. They correlate to the three aspects of divinity as understood by Hindus (Shiva, Vishnu, and Brahman) and Christians (Father, Son, Holy Spirit). From another angle, Father Spirit (Ray One) impregnates Mother Matter (Ray Three) and creates consciousness, the Soul (Ray Two). Rays Four through Seven are known as the Rays of Attribute. They are said to be sub-rays of the Third Ray.
In future articles we will explore in greater detail the qualities of each Ray and explore how they affect the earth as well as how they affect each of us individually.
5 Mindset Changes to Boost Your Happiness
As you set your personal goals, have you considered putting “be happy” at the top of your list? You might want to. Research shows that happiness isn’t just a fleeting feeling—it has real benefits. Happy people are generally healthier, more successful, enjoy better relationships, and report greater job satisfaction. True happiness doesn’t come from empty pleasures; it arises from a combination of a positive outlook and a sense of meaning in life.
Here are five mindset changes to help you increase your happiness:
1. Adopt a “Glass-Is-Half-Full” Attitude
Life is not always easy, and there is plenty wrong in the world. But focusing only on the negatives breeds discontent. Instead, focus on what is right—and watch it grow.
2. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
It’s tempting to measure yourself against someone with a luxury car, a fancy house, or a perfect body. But your journey is your own. You can’t fully know anyone else’s struggles, and everyone experiences pain—it’s part of being human.
3. Be Mindful of Your Words
Words carry power. Avoid hurtful speech, including gossip or words spoken in anger during conflict. Use language thoughtfully to convey your perspective, but never to harm another.
4. Let Others In
Trusting others can feel scary but is incredibly rewarding. People are basically good most of the time, and humans thrive in connection. Spend time with friends, engage socially, and allow yourself to love and be loved.
5. Give Back
Nothing boosts true happiness more than contributing to the well-being of others—people, animals, plants, or the environment. Find a cause you enjoy, make a difference, and you’ll notice a profound sense of fulfillment.
Conclusion
Happiness is a practice, not a destination. By adjusting your mindset and taking small, intentional actions, you can cultivate lasting joy and meaning in your life.
Loss and love
Trigger Warning: This post reflects on grief, loss, and the resilience of the human heart. It contains descriptions of tragic events and may be emotionally intense.
I recently spent the evening with my sister’s family as they rode the waves of grief. They were reeling from the loss of an entire family of friends, gunned down in an unimaginable act of violent terror.
There have been—and will continue to be—tears of anguish, the constant questioning of why and how this can have happened, and those other questions
- How will I go to the park when I’ve always gone there with my best friend?
- How will I wake up tomorrow and be forced to realize this isn’t a nightmare?
Remembering “The Moment”
The teenage girl had nicknamed herself “the Moment.” She was unique and happy and comfortable in her own skin. She made people laugh. She loved—she simply loved, because that’s who she was.
In the middle of the night her uncle, fragile before military service and destroyed afterwards, came into her house and gunned down her family, then left to wreak his destruction on others, leaving seven holes in countless hearts.
Some humans are vulnerable to evil. Yet many more are inherently good.
Choosing How to Respond
The outpouring of concern, of heart-felt compassion and love, has been amazing to witness. When we focus the spotlight of attention on such a tragedy, as happens too often these days, our hearts crack open a little more. We feel each others’ grief. In the face of heartache and loss, with hearts wide open and in suffocating pain, we have two choices.
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Shut down: Close off, build layers over our hearts, and retreat from vulnerability.
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Move through the pain: Let grief deepen our capacity to love. In the crucible of despair, our hearts can soften, becoming more pure and beautiful.
The innocents who seem to sacrifice themselves every day—sometimes quietly, sometimes publicly—remind us: don’t lose faith. We are still here. We still love. Be happy, be kind, and simply love.
The Power of Thoughts: Creating Your Reality
With our thoughts, we create our world. This ancient wisdom, handed down by the Buddha, is gaining recognition in modern culture. But is there evidence that this is true? And if it is, what are the implications?
Thoughts can seem to have a “mind of their own,” yet they influence our reality in profound ways. Understanding and managing them is essential.
Evidence of the Power of Thoughts
Dr. Masaru Emoto and Water Experiments
Dr. Masaru Emoto’s experiments, made famous in his book Messages from Water, demonstrate how thoughts affect matter. Water crystals energized with love form bright, beautiful shapes, while those exposed to hate become misshapen and dark. His mold experiments offer further examples of this phenomenon.
The Global Consciousness Project
This project investigates how collective human attention impacts the Earth’s magnetic field. Random number generators installed at 70 sites worldwide show synchronized patterns during major events that captivate global attention—an effect with one in a trillion odds of being random.
Bruce Lipton and Epigenetics
In The Biology of Belief, Bruce Lipton explains how our cells respond to our thoughts and emotional environment. Epigenetics shows that it’s not the genes themselves, but the proteins covering them—the epi-genes—that turn them on or off. These proteins are influenced by our environment, including the food we eat, the air we breathe, and our emotional state.
Applying This Wisdom to Your Life
Our thoughts are powerful tools for creating our reality. This awareness carries responsibility: we must monitor and purify our thoughts and emotions to align with our highest good.
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Awareness: Recognize the influence of your thoughts and dedicate yourself to cultivating clarity.
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Meditation and Mindfulness: Practice techniques that help release old patterns of thought and emotion.
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Energy Psychology: Tools like EFT and other energy-based therapies can help clear blocks.
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Gratitude and Heart-Opening: Develop a habit of gratitude and trust in the process of life.
By consistently applying these practices, we can create the life we want—and contribute to a better world.
Loving Your Cells: A New Approach to Body Image
I want to share a concept that has been profoundly helpful both for my clients and for myself. Many clients struggle with weight loss, which is hardly surprising—trying to lose weight has become a national pastime.
In our culture, we are constantly exposed to media images of the “ideal body”: the ultra-thin woman and the perfectly sculpted man. These unrealistic ideals contribute to negative body image, self-criticism, shame, and hopelessness.
But there’s a different way to think about our bodies—one that starts with loving our cells.
Your Cells Are Alive and Intelligent
Our bodies are made up of roughly 50 trillion cells, each living about seven years and performing essential functions. Research, including Bruce Lipton’s Biology of Belief, suggests that cells respond intelligently to their environment—they move toward nutrients and away from toxins.
This means our bodies are not just passive matter—they are active, intelligent systems working for us every moment of every day.
Shifting Perspective: From Being the Body to Honoring It
The key is to shift from “I am my body” to “I have a body”. This creates healthy detachment and allows us to appreciate our bodies rather than criticize them.
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Honor your cells as the “50 trillion molecular geniuses” described by Jill Bolte Taylor in her TED talk.
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Recognize that your cells work tirelessly for you and deserve respect, gratitude, and care.
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Speak positively to your body and your cells—words matter.
The Benefits of Loving Your Cells
When we love and honor our cells, we naturally begin to love ourselves more fully. Criticism fades, and a sense of gratitude and self-respect takes its place.
This is not about perfection—it’s about appreciation. Each part of your body, flawed or otherwise, is unique, valuable, and worthy of love.
By starting with the smallest building blocks—your cells—you can transform your relationship with your body and yourself.
Why Sleep Is the Most Underrated Health Habit
Of all the things we do for our health, one of the most important is also the least respected: sleep.
We hear a lot about healthy eating, exercise, meditation, and regular checkups. Yet sleep rarely gets the attention it deserves—even though it is a cornerstone of health and mental well-being.
Why Sleep Matters
Getting enough sleep keeps our brains functioning efficiently, which:
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Improves cognitive skills and focus
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Boosts mood and emotional regulation
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Enhances reaction time and decision-making
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Helps regulate appetite
Even one night of poor sleep can cause irritability, moodiness, and lower inhibitions. Chronic sleep deprivation contributes to:
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Weight gain
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Heart disease
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Mood disorders and irritability
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Immune dysfunction
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Increased accident risk
For teens, the consequences are particularly severe. Sleepy teens struggle with learning, mood regulation, and are more likely to experience sleep-related accidents.
How Much Sleep Do We Really Need?
While individual needs vary, research shows:
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Adults: ~8 hours per night (though many manage only 6–7)
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Teens: ~9¼ hours per night
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Reality: 85% of teens get less than recommended, and 30% of adults sleep less than seven hours nightly
Tips for Better Sleep
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Make sleep a priority – restructure your day if needed to allow 8 hours.
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Keep a regular sleep/wake schedule – consistency matters.
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Avoid heavy meals and alcohol before bed.
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Limit caffeine – avoid consumption at least six hours before bedtime.
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Turn off screens – TV, tablets, and monitors at least two hours before bed.
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Optimize your bedroom environment – keep it dark, cool, and quiet.
Make Sleep a Habit
Try prioritizing sleep for one week to feel the difference. Commit for three weeks to make it a lasting habit. Not only will you feel more alert, happier, and healthier, but you’ll also model good sleep habits for your family.
Stop Criticizing Others: Why Their Mistakes Aren’t Really About Them
I’m starting off with a bold statement: Nobody wakes up determined to screw up.
No one gets out of bed thinking, “Today I’m going to make as many mistakes as possible and annoy everyone I meet.” Mistakes happen, sure. None of us is immune. But one of the biggest errors we make is criticizing others for their mistakes.
Criticism Pulls Us Away From Oneness
When we fall into the trap of criticism, we move away from our inherent connection with others. The heart takes a backseat to the ego, and we reinforce separateness instead of interdependence.
Everyone has their own backstory, wounds to heal, lessons to learn, and contributions to make. Just as it would feel unreasonable to get upset with a toddler for not grasping a philosophical debate, or a non-native speaker for missing a nuance in your language, it’s often inappropriate to get angry at someone for simply being where they are on their path.
Criticism is a Reflection of Ourselves
Here’s the real kicker: the things that upset us most in others are reflections of what we struggle with inside ourselves.
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Do “stupid people” frustrate you? Check your inner dialogue for self-criticism about your own mistakes.
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Are you enraged by someone’s selfishness? Ask yourself how often you judge yourself for being selfish or struggle with a martyr complex.
The pattern is clear: what we criticize in others, we are criticizing in ourselves.
The Path to Acceptance
Once we become aware of this dynamic, we can start the work of self-healing. As we address our own wounds, criticism naturally fades. We begin to accept others’ mistakes more easily, recognizing that everyone is doing the best they can with the personalities and experiences they have.
We’re in this together, and embracing that truth opens the door to compassion, understanding, and connection.
Clear Your Mind and Energy Field for Better Decision-Making
Have you ever known someone who thinks endlessly about their choices but still seems paralyzed when it comes to deciding? They devote hours to analyzing, yet clarity doesn’t follow. If you could see their energy field, it would likely appear cloudy and murky—and that’s exactly what’s happening.
Thoughts Are Energy
You may have heard the phrase, “thoughts are things.” It’s true—thoughts exist on an energetic level and can cloud our energy fields, making it difficult to see clearly. In Eastern traditions, this cloudiness is called miasma, largely composed of thought forms. Clearing this miasma is an essential part of spiritual growth, helping us connect with our Higher Self and make wiser decisions.
Clearing Thought Forms
The key to clearing thought forms is intention and awareness. Recognizing that overthinking diminishes clarity is the first step. Once you acknowledge this, you can apply practical techniques to “stop the madness”:
1. The Whirlpool Exercise
Imagine a whirlpool or vortex of energy surrounding you, about 20 feet in every direction. Let it swirl, clearing away anything not aligned with your highest good. You can focus on specific issues (like “fear of failure” or “anger with a partner”) or simply intend that it clears all negativity. Spend 3–5 minutes a day, especially after a challenging day.
2. Chakra-by-Chakra Clearing
Visualize each chakra opening like a funnel, releasing negativity. Each chakra correlates with specific patterns and challenges, making this a targeted way to clear your energy field.
3. Connect to Your Higher Self
Imagine a laser-like beam of light entering your energy field to dissolve a specific problem or thought form. You can also simply ask your Higher Self to release any thoughts not serving your highest good. This process takes only a few seconds but is highly effective.
4. Step Back from Complex Decisions
When facing tough choices, brainstorm briefly and then shift your focus elsewhere. Often, clarity emerges in the background, leading to wiser, less stressful decisions than overthinking allows.
Benefits of a Clear Energy Field
The more consistently we clear our energy fields, the stronger our connection to inner guidance becomes. Decisions flow more easily, intuition strengthens, and our overall sense of peace increases. Clearing thought forms is not only empowering for decision-making, but also for personal and spiritual growth—a true win-win!
Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You
Are there things in your day that fill your time but don’t add to the purpose of your life? If you’re like most people, the answer is probably yes. It may be time to reflect on what you can let go of. When you let go of what no longer serves you, life opens up for new, better things.
The Modern Overload
Our modern lifestyle offers countless opportunities to overcrowd our schedules, leaving little room for what truly matters. Over-scheduling can prevent us from functioning at our best. To live a more effective and fulfilling life, it’s essential to cut out the extraneous—to let go of things that no longer serve us so we can focus on what truly matters.
A Personal Example
Over the past year, I’ve let go of many commitments that were no longer serving me—things I held onto out of habit, obligation, or expectation. One example was a business leads group I had joined to grow my practice. Initially, it provided support, networking, and leads, which were valuable.
Over time, however, the morning meetings became draining. I was often running late and showing up unhappy. It became clear that continuing was not benefiting me or my practice. By letting go, I not only reclaimed my mornings but also improved my energy and focus for my clients—and my practice actually grew.
The Power of Letting Go
When we release activities, commitments, or relationships that no longer serve us, we create space for purposeful action, fulfillment, and growth. Letting go is not about giving up; it’s about prioritizing what truly matters.
Ask yourself: What in your life can you let go of to better serve yourself and others?
Are You Truly Happy at Work? How to Shift Your Job or Your Attitude
Are you happy at work? If you are, you’re one of the lucky ones. According to a Gallup poll published in Forbes, unhappy workers outnumber happy ones by two-to-one. Sadly, 24% of workers worldwide are “actively disengaged”—they dislike their jobs—and only 13% feel truly engaged, fulfilled, and contributing.
If your work leaves you uninspired, a heart-centered approach can help you find meaning—whether that means reframing your current job or pursuing a new path entirely.
Three Choices When You’re Unhappy at Work
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Suck it up and wait for retirement
Many people tolerate jobs they hate, counting the days until retirement. But work occupies a huge portion of our lives, and spending that time feeling miserable isn’t ideal for building a meaningful, joy-filled life. -
Reframe your perspective
Instead of focusing on what you dislike—difficult colleagues, low pay, or a micromanaging boss—look for the hidden benefits and lessons. My first job was miserable, yet it taught me skills like fast typing, using computers, and insights into the stock market. It gave me the chance to work in downtown Baltimore, make lasting friendships, and even see Bill Gates in person! Shifting attention to what’s valuable can help you leverage even a challenging role into growth and opportunity. -
Find a new job or career aligned with your gifts
Statistics can feel discouraging, but remember—you are not a statistic. You have unique talents and experiences to offer the world. Notice what activities make your heart sing, when you lose track of time, or feel fully immersed. These are clues to your calling. Consider how to make a living doing what you love, and trust that the universe supports your efforts. Showing up consistently is the first step.
The Path to Happiness at Work
A simple mindset shift—or a career change—can lead to greater satisfaction. As the quote often attributed to the Dalai Lama goes:
“Be happy. It feels better.”
Whether you adjust your attitude, seek new opportunities, or both, the key is taking action toward fulfillment.